Women are very special beings created by God. They may be said to be the most special amongst all the creatures that God created.
Women can make them feel protected, wanted, needed, loved, and name them.
But the same woman can make you feel angry, rejected, left out, and so on.
The woman is a master of emotions, they can handle a lot of emotional things that a man may never be able to handle, why?
I guess that’s how the creator made them.
Relating to a woman is a topic that many have debated for years, from understanding
women, how to treat them, how to cope with/without them, how to work with them etc, you name a few.
But one thing remains constant: women don’t change their personality and nature no matter where they find themselves.
This will be the basis of our article;
This is a very deep topic and very wide. We can spend the whole day expatiating this very simple heading but trust me it is very deep and broad Knowing if a woman wants to be talked to is one thing, and knowing how to approach
her is another, knowing how to get her attention is one thing, and knowing how to get her interested in something else, but in this article, we will dissect and disseminate this hard code and by the time you finish reading this article, you will be confident around any lady and start a conversation with fear or prejudice.
So now let’s get to business, a woman is like a game of chess or better than a puzzle that you need to figure out, although all women have an emotional frequency in common they all respond to many things differently.
Let me explain, a woman may overlook the tone of your voice and still engage in a
conversation with you, another woman too might stop you from going further as soon as they perceive your tone to be offensive.
If you have spotted a woman around your area, in your lecture hall, your office, or workplace and you approach her for the first time, I would advise you to take your time and follow these few steps;
Yes critical, you need to observe her very well for
Sometimes don’t be in haste to go and say hi or hello or even throw a cheap pick line at her.
Be patient, look at her demeanor, her mood the kind of trend she keeps for some time maybe two days, three days maybe a week.
In observing her, try to also see how she relates to other people, how she talks to other people, her response to the advances other people make towards her, these will help you know how you approach her and the kind of mood that’s right to not spoil your chance of getting into a conversation with her.
The next step is to know how to get close to her. Here’s how to approach, approach is very important because if your approach is repulsive she might halt you the minute you get in front of her and that will squash your chances of having a conversation with her.
So in Approaching a lady you want to talk to for the first time, you must consider
location, circumstances, mood, and the kind of activities going on around her at the time you want to approach.
If she is busy with work or spending time with her friends or even having a quiet time alone, all this will give you a fair idea of what to even say when you get close to her.
At this point, you have marked the time and mood in which you can walk up to this stunning lady to strike up a conversation to shoot your shot or even take her phone number so that you establish a friendship or start a relationship with her.
The way you look, what you are wearing, the way you smell, your facial expression all come into play, because these gender called females to check everything right from your hair to your toenails so as she sees you coming to the spot where she is standing, she will be scanning you, to look for a fault to turn you away, so in approaching a lady for the first time, your appearance must be appealing to her, she must be admiring you, even before you get
close to her.
So this is one of the vital things you need when you want to talk to a lady for the first time; your
The famous saying goes faint heart never won fair lady, when going to meet this lady for the first time and have a conversation, you need to gather a lot of conversation and gut yes you heard me right gut cos women like men who know what they are about, they love a fearless man, so when you come before a woman looking like a dog beaten by the rain, she will just turn to get attention else, watch you struggle with yourself till you get out of her face.
But when you go to her like a soldier grabs a rifle, as if you know that she is already yours or you have known her forever, there she would want to have you talk to her by fixing her gaze on you.
So don’t undermine confidence, because all women love bold men so your boldness when going to talk to a woman for the first time can do you a lot of good.
5 What to say when you are standing in front of the lady ;
So finally you have gathered enough courage to get in front of this gorgeous lady, here you are standing in front of her or beside her, and now you must say something to get her full attention so you can go on to have a nice conversation.
Remember you have not spoken to this lady before, so being cordial will be a very good
card to play, most guys would love to use a catchy pickup line to get her attention, before going on to start the real conversation.
So when you have finally approached her, you are standing in front of her or beside her, the best way to go is to mostly use the cordial greeting, Hi/Hello how are you doing.
This kind of statement catches the attention of anybody, faster than you can even imagine because it’s a form polite direct question and most people would most want to answer this question, so after she replies to you, there is the door to start a conversation has been opened, here you can follow up with a very good compliment, like, your voice sounds very beautiful, that might even trigger a smile or laughter, there the atmosphere between you two becomes loosened and then you can go on and talk about anything you want with her.
But always remember, cordial greeting, first the compliment, these two are golden keys
to talk to a lady for the first time.
Hope you enjoyed reading my article